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Memory & Chat History

Memory supports continuity, while chat history preserves the conversation itself. Knowing the difference gives you more control over what stays with a chat.

#What memory is for

Memory helps a character carry forward useful context from a conversation. That can make later chats feel less repetitive and more personal. It is not a replacement for the message history, and it is not a reason to put sensitive information into a chat.

The product shows memory-related capacity and controls in Settings. Treat the visible information there as authoritative because availability can vary by account state and plan.

Storage dashboard: Settings → Wipe History

The Memory storage card displays a combined percentage and plan-dependent capacity message.

Capacity alert: New stored memories can be blocked

When a plan limit is reached, open Manage to clear space per chat. Existing duplicate updates can still merge.

#Manage a chat's memory deliberately

Open SettingsWipe History. In the screenshot below, read the confirmation carefully before you continue — it names whether you are clearing stored memory or wiping the full conversation.

Clear memory keeps the messages and removes remembered context. Wipe History removes the conversation itself. Use the smallest action that solves the problem.

Memory types: Facts, episodes, and visual memories

Clear memory targets these stored items for one selected chat and preserves messages.

History action: Wipe History deletes the whole conversation

Use it only when you intend to remove both messages and the associated remembered context.

Memory and history have different effects

The same chat can keep its transcript while losing stored context. That makes Clear memory the correct reset when you want a fresh interaction without losing messages.

ControlPurposeMessages after confirmation
Memory storageShows capacity and whether new memory types are blocked.Unchanged.
Manage → Clear memoryRemoves stored memory for one chat.Retained.
Chat-level Wipe HistoryDeletes one conversation and its memory.Deleted.
Global WipeDeletes every saved conversation and every character memory.All deleted.
Use the smallest action that solves the problem

Clear memory when you want to reset remembered context. Wipe history only when you want to remove the full chat and its associated memory.

#Good memory habits

Keep important preferences clear and consistent. If a preference changes, say what changed instead of assuming an earlier detail no longer applies. For unrelated ideas, start a new chat. This keeps the conversation easy to understand for both you and the character.

For broader account controls, see Privacy, Boundaries & Control.

#Open Wipe History first

Go to Settings. In the screenshot below, select the Wipe History tab. Every memory and history control for chats lives here.

#What to do when memory storage is full

The Memory storage card in the screenshot below can say a plan limit is reached. That does not delete your chat — it blocks new stored memories until you free space.

Click Manage to clear space per chat. Use Wipe History only for a full conversation reset.

#Clear one chat from Manage

After Manage, the screenshot below shows a chat row with Clear memory. Use that for one conversation. Messages stay; remembered context goes.

Exact clicks

What to click in Mistress.to

These paths use the labels currently shown in the product so you can move through the feature without guessing.

Inspect and manage memory

  1. 01

    Open Settings and select Wipe History.

  2. 02

    Read the Memory storage card for current capacity.

  3. 03

    Select Manage to open the per-chat controls.

  4. 04

    Use Clear memory for one chat, or use Wipe History only when you intend to remove the conversation too.

Common questions

Quick answers

Can a memory limit block new memories?

Yes. The Memory storage area can report that new stored memories are blocked until space is available.

Do messages disappear when I clear memory?

No. Clear memory preserves messages; Wipe History removes the full conversation.

Where is the Manage button?

Open Settings → Wipe History and find the Memory storage card.

Where can I confirm the current cost or access requirement?

Open the exact feature you want to use. The live call, task, image, or chat flow shows the current requirement before you confirm an action.

How do I preserve a conversation before trying something different?

Leave the current conversation intact and start a separate chat or workflow when the product provides that option. Do not use a wipe or delete control just to change direction.

What should I do when the guide says a button should exist but I cannot see it?

Check that you are in the correct screen and account state first. If it is still absent, contact support with the feature name and a cropped screenshot of the visible controls.

Can I use these features without sharing personal details?

Yes. Give only the context needed for the interaction. Avoid putting private identifiers, financial details, or other sensitive information into messages or screenshots.

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