#Find your referral details in Settings
Open Settings → Referral. In the screenshot below, copy the invite link with the copy control — share that link, not a screenshot of your dashboard.
The live Give/Get wording on that page is the reward terms to trust.
Referral route: Settings → Referral
Wait for the read-only referral-link field to load, then use the adjacent Copy control.Qualifying event: Your friend makes their first paid purchase
The dashboard's flow is Share Link → Friend Makes First Purchase → Token Top-Up.#Share clearly and responsibly
Tell the person you invite what Mistress.to is and let them decide whether it is right for them. Do not imply a reward that is not shown in the current product terms, and do not create misleading claims about features, pricing, or account access.
Referral rewards are tracked by the product. If you expect a reward and do not see it after the qualifying action, use the support route with the minimum information needed to investigate.
Current configured reward: Give 100, Get 100 tokens
The displayed reward amount is populated by the account dashboard. Check the live wording before you describe it to anyone.Share the link, not the dashboard: Keep codes, progress, and earnings private
A copied link is the intended shareable item. Screenshots can expose account-specific data.Read the referral dashboard correctly
The fields are not interchangeable. A pending referral is not yet a converted or rewarded referral.
| Field | What it counts | What it does not prove |
|---|---|---|
| Invited | The total referrals attributed to your link. | That a qualifying purchase has occurred. |
| Converted | Referrals that completed the qualifying paid-purchase step. | The total number of links you shared. |
| Pending | Referrals that have not completed the qualifying action yet. | A lost referral or a guaranteed future reward. |
| Earned | Tokens credited from rewarded referrals. | A balance screenshot you should share publicly. |
#Total, Rewarded, Pending, and Earned are different fields
Total records referrals, Rewarded identifies referrals that completed the qualifying step, Pending is still waiting, and Earned shows the token outcome. Use the live Give/Get text in the Referral tab whenever you describe the program because offers can change.