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Privacy, Boundaries & Control

A private experience starts with clear control. This guide explains the choices you can make in the product and where to find them.

#Your controls are in Settings

Open Settings. In the screenshot below, select the Wipe History tab before you touch memory or conversation controls — confirm the tab label matches.

Availability can differ by account state or plan. Use the labels on screen as your source of truth.

Per-chat memory: Settings → Wipe History → Memory storage → Manage

Manage opens chat-level controls rather than deleting an entire thread.

Wipe History removes: The conversation and its memory

A chat-level wipe leaves tokens untouched. Global Wipe applies across all character histories.

#Memory and chat history are different controls

A conversation can have saved memory and message history. Clearing a chat memory removes the stored memory for that chat while keeping the messages. Wiping a conversation history removes the conversation itself and its associated memory.

Choose the smaller action when you only want to reset what a character remembers. Choose the larger action when you want to remove the full conversation. Both actions are intentionally confirmed before they run.

Clear memory removes: Facts, episodes, and visual memories

Messages remain in the chat after this action.

Delete Account removes: Chats, characters, and settings

It is a permanent Profile action, not a subscription cancellation shortcut.

Pick the smallest action that solves the problem

Read the confirmation wording before you approve a destructive action. Similar labels have intentionally different scope.

ActionWhat is removedWhat remains
Clear memoryStored facts, episodes, and visual memories for one chat.That chat's message history and account token balance.
Wipe HistoryOne selected conversation and its associated memory.Other chats and the account token balance.
Global WipeAll chat histories and all characters' remembered context.The account and its token balance.
Delete AccountThe account, chats, characters, and settings.Nothing in the account. This cannot be undone.
Read confirmations carefully

Deletion and wipe actions are designed to be permanent. Check the scope named in the confirmation before you continue.

#Account actions and support

Profile updates, password controls, subscription management, and account deletion live in Settings. If an action is not clear, do not guess. Visit FAQ & Support for the fastest route to help, or review the focused guide for settings and security.

Keep screenshots you share with support free of personal data, transaction details, and private conversation content whenever possible.

#Open Memory storage, then Manage

Still on Wipe History, find the Memory storage card in the screenshot below. Read the capacity message, then click Manage to open per-chat controls.

Do not click a full wipe yet if you only want to reset what one character remembers.

#Clear memory for one chat

Inside Manage, the screenshot below shows a chat row with Clear memory. Click that when you want to remove stored facts and visual memories for that chat only — the messages stay.

Wipe History is broader: it removes the conversation and its memory. Use the smallest action that solves the problem.

Read the named scope

The confirmation tells you whether you are clearing remembered context or removing the full conversation.

Exact clicks

What to click in Mistress.to

These paths use the labels currently shown in the product so you can move through the feature without guessing.

Clear one chat's stored memory

  1. 01

    Open Settings.

  2. 02

    Select Wipe History.

  3. 03

    Find Memory storage and select Manage.

  4. 04

    Choose the relevant chat, select Clear memory, and read the confirmation before confirming.

Common questions

Quick answers

Can I clear a character's memory without deleting messages?

Yes. Use the memory management control for the relevant chat when you want to remove stored memory but keep the message history.

Where do I delete my account?

Account deletion is available from Settings and requires a confirmation because it is permanent.

What stays after Clear memory?

The chat messages stay. Clear memory targets stored facts, episodes, and visual memories for that chat.

Where do I delete an account?

Use Settings → Profile → Account Actions. This is separate from cancellation and chat deletion.

Does Wipe History affect my token balance?

Chat history and token balance are separate account data. Read the product confirmation for the action scope.

Which screen should I trust if this guide and the product look different?

Use the live Mistress.to screen. The guide explains the workflow, but visible labels, availability, and confirmations in your account are authoritative.

Can I leave midway through these steps and come back later?

Yes for normal browsing and chat. Reopen the same feature from its navigation entry. Pause before any action that explicitly says it will delete data, spend tokens, or change billing.

What should I hide if I share a screenshot for help?

Crop or blur names, emails, chat messages, character images, balances, referral codes, payment information, and any unique account details before you send it.

Where can I get help if a visible label is missing?

Use the Wiki search for the feature name, then use Contact support and include the page, the control you expected, and what appears instead.

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